You might be feeling a lot of pressure to get it “right” when you’re actually going down on someone, so why not practice in a low pressure environment? Head to your local sex-positive sex shop (or to Unbound, my favorite online sex shop) and get yourself a dildo. So let’s take a look at couple other techniques for giving head that won't lead to that icky gagging feeling.
That said, deep throating isn't the only kind of blow job that can trigger a person’s gag reflex. Truly excellent blow jobs can be given and received without a penis going anywhere near the back of the throat. If it’s something that you think will be pleasurable for you - and deriving pleasure from your partner’s pleasure absolutely counts - then by all means, work on that gag reflex! But blow jobs do not require deep throating, despite what you may have seen in porn. Please, please, please don’t feel obligated to deep throat. Are you trying to get his penis all the way down your throat (aka, deep throat) every time you give your boyfriend head? Because that could be the issue in and of itself. But don’t worry - nearly 20 years later, I’m much more qualified to answer your question, both from personal experience and because I’m now a trained sex educator!įirst of all, you might not even have a “bad” gag reflex. There’s only so much a girl can glean from sex scenes in novels and clinical descriptions of fellatio. I can’t remember exactly what I told them, but I’m sure my advice was… Not great. So I went to the library and researched it!
PENIS MOUTH GAG HOW TO
I had no idea how to give a blow job, having never given one myself, but I didn’t want my friends to know that I wasn’t as experienced as they thought I was. The questioners were my two best friends and we were freshmen in high school. The very first sex question I ever researched was how to give a blow job. I love this question - for fully selfish reasons. My boyfriend is very supportive, but is there any remedy for this? Q: I have a very bad gag reflex and it makes me self-conscious giving blow jobs. In this week's Sex IDK column, Emma McGowan, certified sex educator and writer, answers your questions about giving oral sex if you have a sensitive gag reflex.
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